Personal brand: Rethinking the dress code

by Kristi on October 29

The Nonconformist

Express your personal style without sacrificing your personal brand

Imagine you’re a hiring manager. You have two candidates: one is decked out in a stylish, freshly pressed business suit, with a snappy tie and shiny, professional shoes. The other is wearing fashionable blue jeans, a light sweater and a sport jacket.

Which would you rather work with?

It doesn’t matter. Because regardless of which of those styles appeals to you more, the fact is that you probably have a preference. One of those styles will feel more familiar, more professional, more appropriate for your workplace — whatever. No matter what or why, image has an impact.

So lets think about some common things that we might wear every day on a critical level for a moment.

What do you think about a business suit? Some might think it’s polished and professional, and that it indicates success. Others might think it’s stuffy, “corporate,” and old-fashioned.

How about a string of pearls? Depending on your age and fashion sense, they can be either classic or prim.

Open-toe stiletto heels? May be seen as a confident step towards fashion-forward. Also may be seen as impractical or attracting the wrong kind of attention.

Last, how about a t-shirt with a slogan printed on it? Some people will find that clearly work inappropriate. Others will see it as a sign of the times, or reflective of a certain culture. It may be assumed that you’re working for a tech startup.

So for any of these items, there’s an upside and a downside. Plus, you’ll dress a little differently for an evening networking event over cocktails than you would for coffee on a Saturday morning. What’s a fashionable professional to do?

The traditional advice on how to dress for business isn’t always true anymore. It’s still better to be overdressed than underdressed, but the growing trend of casual workplaces makes suits in certain situations seem quaint. You can make a positive impression without giving up your personality. After you get dressed for wherever you’re going — be it interview, networking, etc. — check out the mirror then check your gut.

  • How do you feel about how you look? Your gut feeling is trying to tell you something. If your first thought is too short, too tight, too casual, too sloppy or whatever…  listen.
  • If you were to meet the CEO of your dream company, how would you feel? You’d hate to be wishing you’d played it differently.
  • If you asked your mom/best friend, what would they say about it?
  • What’s the worst thing someone could think about you based only on the way you dress?
  • What’s the best thing someone could think on the same basis?

If you’re comfortable with the answers to all of these, and confident that your look will move you forward rather than get in your way, then go ahead. Make your best judgment call based on what you know of the company culture, and the guidelines above. Then, when you get there, make how you dress (almost) irrelevant by dazzling people with what you say, not what you wear.

Creative Commons License photo credit: Martin Kingsley

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{ 4 comments… read them below or add one }

Scott Bowman October 29 at 7:49 am

This reminds me of a guy who hired into our office many years ago at my day job. Our office at the time was professional attire, but nothing over the top. A new guy was hired in customer service, and he was quite polished. Nice dress clothes including a tie, neat hair, slick all around. But slowly over time, he morphed. Lost the tie and picked up some leather wrist bands. Ripped cargo pants replaced the dress slacks, etc. Within months, this nice polished guy had totally morphed. Spiked colored hair, ripped baggy clothing, combat boots and a little make up to boot!

He didn’t stay too long. (May have had an anniversary or two) He knew how to get the job and was good at it, but I don’t think he was as happy as he could be. Coworkers liked him, but I think he limited himself in the eyes of management.

I think when they say “Dress for the job you want”, that extends beyond just the interview :)

Kristi October 29 at 11:56 am

Scott: Great example! This is part of the reason that I’m an advocate of knowing what you want from work, and being who you are in the interview. Sometimes we compromise for opportunity, but in general we’ll be happier if we can find a fit with a culture.

Adrian Ilie November 2 at 1:09 am

hi all

gr8 debate stuff, and i mean the questions in the end of the article; i feel the same about the “look into the mirror and see if you like what you see”, but no more than that;

if i were to meet the CEO of my dream company, what should i do? the “dress to be liked by the mega-boss” is not the way of thinking that suits me – do you like people who do things ONLY to be liked by others? do you like those who OBEY and suck-up to their bosses (or any person with higher authority than theirs) no matter what?

why should i ask mom/best friend abot my looks? why should i dress according to their taste? isn’t this “do things to be liked by others” thinking-style

worst thing a person might think of me based on how i dress? “worst thing” ?? “a person”? … now really, do i dress to be comfortable with myself, or just to fit others’ standards? Scott’s example is perfect for the dual-thinking we are forced to display and act upon in this world of false facades …

and the best thing that someone may say about me is “he’s in a class of it’s own” – which is trully a DIFFERENTIATION from others … which is part of “personal branding”", isn’t it?

so, i will keep going to interviews in jeans-shirt-jacket (because i am a relaxed guy) until i find an employer that likes me for what i trully am

one last thing – i bought a bathingsuit in Rome that has a large print of the penis of David sculpture (made by Michelangelo) on it (when i put it on, from far it looks like i am naked and you can see “my precious family jewels”); at the time i bought it i had a girlfriend who told me “i hope you won’t wear it when we are toghether on the beach” … better we split up, isn’t it?

best regards and i’ll keep reading you

Adrian

Kristi November 2 at 5:58 am

Adrian: You make some good points, and I admire the fact that you have such a clear vision of your personal brand.

For those who may not have spent time connecting the way they dress with their advancement, thinking through perception can be really helpful. For people like you that have considered the implications thoroughly–i.e., that you’d rather not be hired than try to be something that you’re not–the same guidance may not be necessary.

In the end, everyone has to make their own decision about where “being professional” ends and “being someone else” begins. Thanks for reading!!

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